Why Do We Question?
The title of my blog post may seem a bit ironic, but by reading the book Socrates Cafe, I set out to find an answer. Let me begin with some background info. The book is a non fiction narrative by Christopher Phillips. In it, he describes to us his quest for identity as well as knowledge. Phillips began his journey by questioning himself and whether or not he enjoyed the life that he was living at the time. Realizing that he did not, he began to ask himself what he would like to do with his life. After a series of questions and many moments of doubt, he quit his job and moved to Montclaire, New Jersey. There, he set up the first of his weekly philosophical meetups. He called it Socrates Cafe. People noticed and came, every week there would be a new question or topic. Phillips taught a method called Socratic Questioning-- which is a critical and analytical way of observing and asking questions in the hopes that they may become more specific and easier to answer. The questions he discussed were all different each time. Some were about friendship, others about the meaning of life (those he quickly simplified to "What is the meaning of my life?" and "How can I give my life the meaning that I want it to have?") He not only held these meeting in cafes, he would visit schools, prisons, and elderly homes. He would host philosophical discussions with people of all ages and from all over the country. His mission was simple; he wanted to reawaken philosophy and share ideas and learn from the people that he met.
One of his Socrates Cafe groups in San Fransisco discussed my inquiry, why do we question? Though they pondered it for a while, the children where able to come up with the best answer, "Because we wonder.", "Because we want to gain knowledge.", "Because we're curious.", "Because we've observed something we don't understand." (Phillips 195) In other words, they believed that it was human nature to wonder and ask continuously.
But what about wondering too much? When does questioning become excessive? Though Christopher Phillips did not discuss this, it led me to asking if the amount of philosophical inquiry that Phillips was doing was 'too much.' Throughout the book, I began to notice that sometimes the questioning that Phillips was doing seemed unnecessary. Isn't it better not to know the answers to some questions? Shouldn't some knowledge be kept out of the reach of humanity? Some of his questioning became borderline obsessive. At a certain point I began to notice that he was asking questions that seemed to even possibly take away from the experience of living life. Isn't it beneficial to stay ignorant in relation to some topics? For example, it is healthy to question about the meaning of life, because one knows that there can be either no specific answer or a multitude of vague answers. However, questioning becomes obsessive, in my opinion, when one begins to ask about human excellence or begin to compulsively seek out a meaning to assign to their life. Many in the book begin to obsess over how they may achieve that excellence or provide their life with a more desirable meaning without realizing that this may actually be unhealthy or that it may harm them. They may end up seeking a superficial perfection. Once they arrive at it they may begin to understand that the 'perfect' meaning to life is actually just a popular misconception. Or worse, if they do not arrive at the 'perfect' meaning they may become consumed with searching for it and end up being disapointed or waste their life on something so meaningless. To summarize, sometimes it is better to live the life you are living now instead of obsessively searching for a meaning to apply to it.
My group and I came to the conclusion that questioning, and some questions, are healthy to the individual, to a certain point, after which it becomes excessive and questions begin to hurt the individual.